Signs That Spots Your Girlfriend’s Cheating Act
Finding out that your girlfriend of several months or years is cheating can be an unpleasant experience, so it is important not to ignore the tell tale signs.
Most relationships are based on trust, and when one person in the relationship exploits the trust and backstabs the partner it can be a very traumatic experience, leaving the person who is betrayed affected for the rest of his life.
Hence it is important not to ignore the tell tale signs that a girlfriend is cheating. Though it is commonly believed that men cheat more than women, studies indicate that there is very little difference statistically in cheating by the two genders. While telling the truth is the best option, it is often an unpleasant experience, and many women want to have the best of both worlds.
One of the most telling signs that the girlfriend is cheating is when there is breakdown in communication. All attempts to contact her are ignored, emails and text messages are ignored, phone calls are not taken or terminated, saying that she is very busy and will contact some other time. But this promise is never kept, because she has other priorities.
No one who is really concerned about any relationship will intentionally ignore the many mails sent to get a response. There may be some changes in appearance; she may take extra care to dress up, get a new wardrobe, indicating that she wants to impress someone.
Another sign that she has got another person in her life is when she is very busy and has no time for you. Building a new relationship takes time, so she will claim to be busy with a friend, or have additional work in office, as an excuse to avoid meeting her official boyfriend, this will also ensure that you are not able to question her or detect other tell tale signs.
Most people who betray a person who trusts them have a guilty conscience, and they try to justify their backstabbing by criticizing and finding faults in the person who they have betrayed. So if your girlfriend seems to be extra critical, do not take her criticism to heart, keep a close eye on her, it will prevent some nasty shocks in future.